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Trusted Friends & Not Yet Trusted Potential Friends

In About Escorting, For fun, Friends, Photos on May 13, 2013 at 3:53 am

I get a lot of requests to see my Members Only Photo Gallery on my website from people “considering” to see me or “a friend of” one of my doubles partners or more often from people I have never met who just want to “see more.” See more? Are you kidding me? I think I have more photos and personal information on the internet than the vast majority of escorts. I really can’t think of any woman who has more; there may be one somewhere.

So yes, I do get a bit peeved when I get those requests. Are thirty or more pictures carefully chosen to show me from all angles updated every three months religiously not enough? I guess 60 blog posts that go back two years are not enough either? (Hint: click Photos in Categories and every post with a photo will appear). It’s not the fact that people request access to the photos when it clearly states “for trusted friends only”- it’s the fact that there is way more than enough of me out there on the internet, for all to see. I’d be sick of me, if I were you.

Anyway, I am not going to use that cliché saying about the cow and the milk, but really, I have to leave something to the imagination to any perspective friends. I have nothing but my imagination to picture who they may be. I have to operate with some discretion as my discretion assures yours.

And to my trusted friends, sorry the gallery has been quiet lately. I cleaned it up and took out all of the old pictures. Though now I really want to put in some VERY old pictures because they are ridiculously racy, and in them, I was a hot, sassy, young blonde. Does anyone not love a young, hot, naked blonde? Didn’t think so. I also have a photo shoot in a week and I am going to shoot exclusively very, very naughty photos. However, I assure you that I am much better live and in person.

 

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My First Adult Photoshoots

In For fun, Photos on April 29, 2013 at 6:40 am

Some people find clothes that will never fit them again; others find that missing earring that they thought was gone for good; I find old, semi-pornographic photos of myself when spring cleaning my apartment this weekend. They were taken about twelve years ago when I first came to California from the east coast. I quickly found out that nude modeling was a great, lucrative part time job to put me through college which paid more than waitressing. Many of these photos were published online as these were the days when people paid for this type of content on the internet, and when people looked for jobs in “Erotic Services” on Craigslist. I have thousands of them. Maybe more. I am going to go through them when I can and add the best to my Members Gallery, for fun. I couldn’t find many discrete ones for this post but here you go:

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Oh hell, I am going to do that thing that I dislike so much, blur my face out, so I can show you one from one of my favorite sets. It’s called “Babe On The Couch.”

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And this one, from a set called “Babe In The Shower.”

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So here you have it…once I was just a young, wide-eyed girl, who came to California to make it big, or at least get a bachelor’s degree, willing to do whatever it took, even get bleach blonde highlights like everyone else in the entire state, rub ice all over her body in her backyard, wear pig tails and eat cherries while wearing a matching outfit, and allow a camera to follow her into the shower.

I’ve always said life is good but it definitely, definitely gets better with age and maturity.

I will post the good ones in the Member’s Gallery this week. There are some really good and even artistic ones, and also some very, very naughty ones.

Love,

Tabitha

Ever The Travel Bug…

In Doubles, For fun, Friends, Travel on April 27, 2013 at 6:26 pm

I’ve said these words so many times after a trip, for work or for pleasure, or for both: “I’m not going to travel for a while; I’m going to stay home for at least x months!” And why shouldn’t I stay home? I live in one of the biggest travel destinations in the world (Golden Gate Bridge=#1 tourist destination on Earth). It’s not like I live in Cincinnati or Kansas. Late at night, a force beyond my control, starts clicking on my Expedia, Virgin America, and Hotels.com bookmarks.

So I just got home from a trip to Chicago and then LA and I said to myself “‘I’m not going to travel for a while; I’m going to stay home for at least x months!” This time x was supposed to equal 6. In six months, my dream tropical vacation has been booked and paid for. But then I was at my girlfriend Eleni Polaire’s home last night and she said, casually “So when are we taking that trip we talked about?” Ahh, the trip we talked about, right. Well as you can she had me backed me into a corner, arms tied, and so, I was forced to say “How about mid June in DC?”

And then, she furthered her interrogation and coercion by asking, “I’ll look at hotels and you check out flights? How about these dates?” I had no choice but to submit as one can clearly see. I was also terrified that Virgin would sell out every flight to every airport in DC for dates 7 weeks from now so I knew I had to act fast.

On top of this, a friend of hers from DC was there doing handy man stuff and he was from DC. He rattled off a bunch of places to see and restaurants to eat at. Eleni’s evil cohort at work here. These people are ruthless!

I love DC. There’s no place like it in the world. And I have never been to a few of the must-see museums or had dinner at one of the must-eat-at Ethiopian restaurants which I now have the names of filed away in an Evernote doc. On top of all this, I have some great friends I have not seen in ages in DC.

And so, I look forward to all of this in DC come mid-June. Eleni and I will be arriving on flight #265 from SFO.  After that I swear I will not travel for six years days!

It’s My Business Doing Pleasure With You

In About Escorting, For fun on April 26, 2013 at 3:46 pm

This morning over coffee I was browsing through my booking in box, or should I call it Sandi’s inbox? Sandi is my assistant and she is definitely the queen of that in box. Now I definitely, definitely read all of the emails that you send, but I do not respond to them in there, for the most part. I never get a chance to; Sandi moves at lightning speed. I wonder does she ever sleep?

She certainly has a different style than I do. She is professional and to the point: one liners- with just the facts please. She is no BS and won’t let anyone slip through the cracks who doesn’t have at least two impeccable references or satisfactory employment verification which she does her way, not the way I had previously done it. “I’ve seen many people fake online presences before so NO I do not accept a Google search as verification,” she says. And I trust her. I trust her completely, with my life, quite literally.

My style on the other hand, is laid back, chatty, and slow. I’m more of a creative, day dreamer type and Sandi is all briefcase and business. If I were still in charge of scheduling for myself, I would have a lengthy volume or two of “Tabitha’s Letters 2010-2013″ but would not have met many of you as I would have been busy writing these five paragraph or more emails. You would have had to been happy with me as your penpal and I assure you, I’m good with the written word, but damn good in person as well.

What I want to say with this post is that I hope you don’t think I am impersonal or uninterested in you because I employ an assistant. Quite the opposite! I hired Sandi so you would not have to wait a days or days for a response because you shouldn’t have to. Business doesn’t work like that anymore. Sandi is the business side and I am the personal side of things. I do everything but the scheduling because, quite frankly, she is better at it than I am. With Sandi on my side, I have more time to do things that you would expect from an upscale companion. Things like go to the gym, do yoga, read, study new subjects, travel, and plan perfect dates whether it is the outfit I wear for you or having the type of chocolate I know you love on hand. When we meet I am refreshed and ready to give you my 110% instead of frazzled with a pencil behind my ear and in pajamas. Of course I exaggerate but you get the point.

When you encounter Sandi, you will find she is a pleasure to work with. When you encounter me, you will find I am a work of pleasure.

One last note, if you would like to write me a note, please do so at tabitha@mac.hush.com. I would love to hear from you.

 

Gratitude, again

In For fun, Music, Poetry, Tabitha Recommends on April 25, 2013 at 8:42 pm

I’m still on the gift tip here- continuing from my last post. But really, it’s the gratitude tip since giving gifts is an act of gratitude and receiving them also sparks gratitude. So, I got the best gift possible from my sister recently: an ipod loaded with music. Isn’t that a good one?! Feel free to steal the idea and really make someone’s day/week/month/entire span of time that they listen to the music. But I digress as I often do. My sister has an elite and eclectic taste in music. She knows all of the new and upcoming bands and about that guy who makes amazing techno tracks in his mom’s basement in Berlin. One of the bands she included was Modest Mouse. I highly recommend them if you are not familiar with them already! They are experimental rock with quirky, poetic lyrics.

Since I have had gratitude on my mind lately and really always since I believe it is the key to happiness (yep, you heard it here folks), one of their songs jumped out at me. It’s called Lives. I heard it for the first time doing crunches at the gym, and I cried, just a little. It has such a great message: Remember to just be and be grateful for what is in front of you. Now I don’t know about you, but I live a pretty typical western lifestyle: always busy, always on the go, always achieving and always looking for the latest and greatest. I welcome reminders to just slow down and be content with things just as they are. Things like when my mom calls me just because, or when my cat jumps on my lap, purring, blocking me from accessing my laptop, and a beautiful song with beautiful lyrics. Here are some highlights of Lives:

Everyone’s afraid of their own life.
If you could be anything you want I bet you’d be disappointed.
Am I right?

It’s hard to remember we’re alive for the first time.
It’s hard to remember we’re alive for the last time.
It’s hard to remember to live before you die.
It’s hard to remember that our lives are such a short time.

Generous

In For fun, Gifts, Holidays on April 21, 2013 at 7:05 pm

It’s the title of a page on my website. Not surprisingly, it lists gifts that I would love to receive. It also lists the three charities that I regularly donate to. I hope it doesn’t make me appear greedy or superficial to you. Let me explain.

When I was designing my website, I looked at hundreds of websites of other escorts. I devoured them like one does a great novel.  A lot of the ladies had Gifts pages. At first I thought- how tacky to post of list of elite brands and expensive gifts that any woman would like to receive. I also thought, how greedy- to want these very pricey gifts in addition to their high rates. Can’t they buy these things on their own?

Then I thought of something else. I thought of how I love giving gifts. I mean LOVE. Christmas is my absolute favorite time of year. Find me whistling through the mall and boutiques looking for hours for that perfect gift for my cousin’s new love interest who I barely know. Find me shopping online ordering that specialty item for that specialized hobby of one of my siblings. I stuff stockings to the brim and I wrap presents like a painter paints a watercolor at sunset. I consider it an art. I buy flowers for my close friends and family at every holiday or just because; all of those big flower-sending websites send me the reminders which I have signed up for so that I never forget. I hate shopping, unless it is for someone else. Ok fine, and if it is jewelry from Tiffany & Co. for me. (I don’t do spas; I do Tiffany’s and yes, sometimes breakfast there when the silver department is a bad idea).

In his best-selling book, Five Languages of Love, Gary Chapman describes the five primary ways people show love. One of them is by giving gifts. That is my way. And I know that I am not alone here. Giving to others is part of our nature as humans, I believe. At our core, every human wants to love and be loved. Giving is a way of showing love. It is also a way of showing appreciation, a way of saying thanks, and a way of caring for another if they are in need. The item given is irrelevant if the intention is sincere.

So I added the page to my website, Generous. And I have received some gifts, and the charities have received some generous donations from my beloved clients.

I was tickled recently when a new friend burst into my hotel room clutching so many bags and boxes he could hardly manage them. In front of me was an enormous pile of beautiful and obviously carefully chosen gits and a man with a mile-wide beaming smile saying “I really love doing this. I just enjoy giving beautiful things to people.”  He delighted, like a child, as I opened each one. With that I knew he was my people, as the saying goes. He was one who showed his affections through gift-giving.

I don’t expect gifts from any of my clients. Not at all. Just coming to see me and spending time with me is a gift, a great one. But I wrote that page for those who love to give gifts so they have an idea where to start. It sure helps when you know what the person you are buying for likes. Often I wish my clients had a website with a page called Generous. If you are one of my extra, extra special clients (and I hope you know who you are) feel free to drop hints or leave a list on the hotel desk come December or your birthday month. (Seriously)!

Five Ways To Be a Better Lover

In For fun, Relationships, Sex on April 18, 2013 at 7:56 am

1. Go slow. Yes, there is a time for hot, fast, passionate lovemaking but it is not everyday that your lover is returning from combat or a six month self-realization trip to India. There is no rush. Take your time and be in the moment. Take your time and notice all of your senses being stimulated. How does your lover smell? How does the skin of your lover feel? How do they look when receiving pleasure or when giving pleasure to you? Look into their eyes as you move together and see what emotions you see. How does their mouth taste? Their skin? Their privatest parts? Always make sure that you offer your best self to your lover: the one that is clean, beautiful, and smells good. It is a mistake to shave, apply makeup, put on cologne or perfume, or wear nice clothing only when going out. Do not do these things for passing strangers. Do them for your lover whose opinion of you really counts and who you want to be attracted to you.

2. There are more body parts than the penis, breasts, and vagina. Of course, give ample attention to these parts but what about the stomach, the neck, the back of the elbow, or the lower back? All of these parts are highly erogenous. Ask your lover what part is “their spot”- most people have a very clearly defined one. Cover the whole body with kisses; massage the feet; turn your lover over and cover the back of the body too; use light feather touches; grip them firmly and passionately; run your fingers through your lover’s hair.

3. THIS IS IMPORTANT. Honestly evaluate yourself: are you a good kisser? Do you come in for the kill like a freight train? Well, it’s not a kill; it’s a kiss on a highly sensitive and delicate mouth. Come in slow, or fast but still gently if the occasion calls for it. Do you use your tongue properly or do you use it overbearingly or not at all? Kissing is like a balanced conversation: your tongue goes in then your partners tongue goes in, then your tongue, etc. etc. Don’t shove it in like a rigid snake. Keep it relaxed and fluid. Be creative. Gently suck the lower lip and then the upper lip. Tease your partner by pulling away for a second or two. If you are not positive that you are a good kisser, I really encourage you to ask your partner for feedback. Hell, kiss a friend and ask for feedback if you do not have a partner. Kissing is a first impression. Relationships are made or broken because of kissing quality.

4. Don’t be afraid to tell your partner what you like, even if you think it is weird. Ask your partner what they like and do not judge them for liking what they do. Ten  years ago if you told me I would enjoy rope bondage, I would have thought you were insane. But I kept an open mind when I found a partner who liked it and I found something that turns me on very much. I was able to share it with that partner and in fact it brought us closer- physically AND emotionally. I used to think only Silence of the Lamb type freaks cross dressed but now I find it cute and even sexy. I like to watch a man-in-lingerie dress up show. A key rule of thumb when it comes to sexual quirks and kinks: Do not judge and do not ask why. Just keep an open mind, be creative, and have fun. Sex is adult play time. Be uninhibited, like a child.

5. Don’t apologize for dysfunction. This is more obvious when it happens to men of course but women can also be sexually dysfunctional. Talk to your partner about it. Know that it happens to everybody, of all ages. Be OK with making love that may not culminate with an orgasm. What else besides intercourse can you do to feel close and physically satisfied? A limp penis or an non-lubricated vagina does not absolutely signify the end of sexual activity and in fact, it can be a great opportunity to try something new with your partner. What about a sexy massage with oil or a hot make out session just like you used to do in high school? Roll with it and if necessary, address it with your doctor. Chances are, your partner is not judging you poorly for sexual dysfunction and if they are, it may be time to find someone else to be intimate with. Don’t judge yourself.

Only Coffee Drinkers Will Sympathize With This Post

In For fun, Tabitha Recommends on April 10, 2013 at 12:46 am

I’m in search of good coffee in the Union Square area. Does anyone know where to find some? Please email me, if so. I mean really good coffee, you know, the shade grown, small batch, in house roasted, preferably organic and local kind. Sadly, Starbucks has fully infiltrated and saturated the Union Square coffee market. I find myself patronizing them more than I would like to as my “office” is in the area. I don’t hate Starbucks. It’s fine. I do hate that I have to wait in a very long line every time I get it in this area. It’s simply not worth the wait.

San Francisco has opened my eyes to good coffee over the years I have lived here, as the great small coffee shops who roast their own beans have opened. No longer can I just grab a quick cup of coffee at the donut shop, or brew the in-room hotel coffee that appears freeze dried, or take a cup of my uncle’s Folger’s when he offers. I love that this city has great local coffee like Ritual, Sight Glass, and, my favorite, 4Barrell. I have spoken to tourists who tell me these places are in the guide books and that our city has a reputation now of a good coffee town. I love that! But I don’t love Starbucks on every corner (yes with a Peet’s peppered in here and there) in the most famous part of our city.

I would love to see a great independent coffee shop in Union Square. This is the part of town where you can get the finest of everything, from shoes to watches to underwear. Why not the finest coffee?

P.S. To my fellow coffee connoisseurs: All three brands I mentioned above are sold by the bag in bay area Whole Foods. I very highly recommend trying one or all of them. I promise you won’t go back to Blue Bottle.

Los Angeles

In For fun, Travel on April 8, 2013 at 4:18 am

This post comes to you live from Los Angeles, from the 11th story of a nice hotel just off the 405 freeway. I have no idea where I am- and I arrived on Friday.

I come to LA often and have enjoyed many of its offerings. My friends who live down here always lead the way for me, and they drive. This trip, no friends, just me, my work, and my car. I have been getting lost. A lot. It’s not only me and my lack of sense of direction, but my gps is choking and is only 50% reliable apparently. Maybe it is also that I am simply overwhelmed by this city, when viewed through my windshield.

Los Angeles is a different kind of city. You drive through it. Legs are useless here. Everything is 12 miles and 30 minutes away. In LA, there are cities within cities, all blurring together eventually. LA is massive, and it never ends.

I consider myself an expert city driver- which basically means I scare the people in my car when I drive but I have never had an accident.  I can parallel park in 5 seconds flat. I enjoy driving in NYC. I consider cabbies my colleagues. I’m an amateur here. LA driving is something way different. It’s fast and furious, or it’s not moving and furious. The streets are wide and many. Getting caught lost going the wrong way in traffic can eat up half of your day, if just a typical rush hour doesn’t. Cars seem to command the right of way even in the case of pedestrians. I have noticed peds yielding to me in my car.

I’m learning the rules and in the meantime getting cursed at pretty regularly. I am trying to make sense of this map. There is no place like LA.

New Photos by Scott Church

In For fun, Photos on March 8, 2013 at 3:12 am

I just finished another successful photo shoot with the extremely talented and artistic Scott Church. I love working with him and his lovely assistant Sara. They have become friends and so all of the awkward moments of an erotic photo shoot are not so awkward anymore. You know things like lipstick on the teeth, a boob hanging in an unflattering angle, when the photographer has to rub bubbles on your ass for the bath tub scene, and my favorite from today- a detailed impression of my most privatest parts left on the mirrored table because I had just applied oil all over my body. That had us all laughing. I would have been highly embarrassed with any other photographer.

So I have not written a word lately here and I figure a new pic or two and a quick paragraph about them might be the perfect way to get me back into the habit.

I am a nature girl (kind of) at heart. I just started wearing bright red lipstick, and Madonna just started making lingerie. This is a piece from her new line.

I am a nature girl (kind of) at heart. I just started wearing bright red lipstick, and Madonna just started making lingerie. This is a piece from her new line.

This one will be a main website image soon enough. This one will be a main website image soon enough. I love the color combo. Purple and gold are royal colors- though I have never seen a queen wear a dress like this.

This one will be a main website image soon enough. I love the color combo. Purple and gold are royal colors- though I have never seen a queen wear a dress like this.

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